The Real World
By John W. Vander Velden
Once someone told me, I didn’t know the real
world. That statement troubled me. I suppose I had lived in a sheltered realm,
separated from many of the things others had to face. I understood that. But did that mean I had no concept of
“reality”? I wondered. By chance, I bumped into my pastor in a fast
food joint. We sat together and spoke on
a wide variety of subjects…as people might do with their pastor. At one point I told him about this person’s
charge… That I didn’t know the real world.
The words he shared then left a mark.
He told me that if I did not know the real world, then nobody did. Rev. John pointed out that my profession
engulfed me in life’s reality…daily.
From that conversation, I came up with a phrase I
have used in a few of my stories, “The mud and blood of life.” I begin my forty-third year as a full time
farmer…well these days it is a little less full time. And feel myself fortunate that this life has
given me opportunities few of my generation share. Only two percent of our nation’s population
can call themselves farmers. Oh, how agriculture
has changed during my tenure.
My world…real or not…is made up of earth and sky…of
new life bursting into my environment…of growth and maturity…and yes, of
death’s reality as well. I have lived
more than forty years in “the mud and blood of life”, and am grateful. Does that mean each day has been a joyful
experience? Oh no, by no means. For to face the challenges of an ever
changing world…driven by so many things beyond human control…is often a
difficult, heartbreaking task. Too often
failure seems the only possible result as onward I trudge, to daily face
carefully laid plans that are tossed aside as new ones must be generated “on the
fly”. But when the dust settles…on those
days when the soil is dry enough…most days I can look back and see things
achieved. It may be less that I had
originally hoped, but my world, real or not, has moved forward.
Soon I begin again the task that has framed my
life. Soon the roar of tractors will be
heard on our farm. The work of this
season lies before me. The total of that
job seems too great for these “bones” to do.
But I must not look too hard at the “total” but rather at the smaller
“bites”, as daily I pick up the load and stretch forward, making small steps of
the grand journey. Soon I will see the
rows of new life reaching upward against all odds. Green will return to the now barren land. I will have no time for pride, for the task
goes day after day.
I will not tell you that my world, or life, is more
real than your world. For each of us
find ourselves surrounded by so many things…things that form our own personal
“real” world. Our jobs, our families,
our homes, our neighbors, the places we shop, the people we meet and how we
come to meet them, these people, places, and things surround us as we live our
lives. These are the things that are
real to each of us. Understanding that,
means you know your “real” world…. It is indeed a real place.
Though each person’s “real” world is as unique as
the wonderful people that fill it, we have something in common. For though not all know it, there is one
thing we all share. I am fortunate that
my profession exposes me to so many “earthy” experiences. That in these simple things I could see something
that modern technology…the rush of the world and society…has hidden. For I have come to grasp, what to me, is the
greatest reality of all. You see I have
never been in charge…not really. In all
my years of experience…with all the training that the school of life has
provided…can I cause the simplest seed to sprout? Oh, I can carefully place tens of thousands
in neat rows. Place those seeds in
prepared soil at precise depth. Provide
correct amounts of nutrients for its health.
But then it is completely beyond my control. I trust that GOD will cause the tiny thing I
have placed in the soil to become…eventually…the plant producing the grain I
will harvest. Too easily taken for
granted is the “magic” of real life. Too
easily we overlook the unexplainable…trying to force fit explanations that
leave out…or worse…ignore GOD’s part of the equation. For GOD is the most “real” part of our world!
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