Friday, April 29, 2016

A Step Forward


A Step Forward

By John W. Vander Velden

 

A journey has many steps,
Each one important.
To begin may seem the most difficult,
But I would disagree. 

To carry the load, pace by pace,
To go on, though the goal remains beyond our sight. 
That to me is the sign of determination and courage. 

We press on knowing that even in failure we grow,
But failure is only certain when we put down our burden,
Turning from the possible victory that lies unseen. 

Each step, the easy and the difficult matter. 
Each step, moves us to places we yet have not perceived. 
Who is to say what lies before us...

                             Not I! 

But I know that I have traveled a far distance,
My journey is not complete. 
So with each step I move forward,
To reach a place I have never been.

                        That's life. 

AIN'T LIFE EXCITING!!!

Friday, April 22, 2016

Not Promised!


Not Promised!                      

By John W. Vander Velden

 

Events of the last week remind me of the tenuousness of life.  Just when we think things are rolling along…something tosses about our world.  In the jumble that remains, we see things with clearer eyes.  How easy it is to believe that no matter how we squander away our time…more time remains.  That the sun will rise for us tomorrow, and with the new day’s break comes opportunity to remedy the short comings of today.  For all of us it seems tomorrow is an unwritten promise.

Often we postpone things that matter and thing that may not, certain that time stretches before us.  Years ago I discussed “the immortality factor” with a college professor.  He told me that no one really considers the possibility of unexpected demise.  Perhaps he is right…and perhaps it is best that we do not dwell on life’s unexpected ending.  But I remind myself each day when I go out, that I might not return.  It seems morbid doesn’t it?

But that is not the point of this post.  Yes, we are all mortal.  We have our beginning and certainly, though we do not wish to think about it, will have our earthly end.  And yes, none of know the moment we give up this “robe of flesh”, which is a good thing.  But we should not rely upon what is not promised…that there will always be a tomorrow. 

So if I were to offer a bit of advice, the most profound would be to enjoy today…the right now.  Do not look for some “pie in the sky” better day.  This is the day you have…the good of it as well as the not so good.  Make this moment all it can be…take hold of it…feel it…breathe it in.  Do what you can today.  No, you cannot accomplish everything you might want…today.  But do not postpone untill…whenever.  For whenever is not promised.

4-22-2016        (326 Words)

Friday, April 15, 2016

With the Sun's Rising


With the Sun’s Rising




By John W. Vander Velden

Each day, with the sun’s rising, whether the orange orb bursts from the horizon in clear skies or is hidden behind overcast, I am grateful.  For I know that each day is a gift, filled with twenty-four unrepeatable hours.  Among those hours will be delights and difficulties, because it is life.  But I am grateful for both laughter and tears, for the easy and the difficult, for I understand that the contrast is important, that without darkness the candle’s flickering flame would be no more than a small pale light. 

With the sun’s rising I consider the day’s possibilities, face the work before me, draw a breath and march forward once again.  Too easy to dwell on the negative, to focus on what I might not have, or the wearisome battles which seem to have no end.  Too easy to forget the important things, things that are beyond price, love, laughter, or the beauty found in the raindrops that settle on fallen leaves.  I take time, just a little out of my insanely hectic life, to look about and thank God for another one…the gift that begins with the sun’s rising. 

(190 Words) 11-5-2015

Friday, April 8, 2016

Imperfection


Imperfection                

By John W. Vander Velden

            Why are those we watch most closely the ones that make the most mistakes?   I believe I watch myself closest of all – and -- I am certain that I make more errors than most others.   There is no question about my perfection -- I'm not!   Maybe everyone thinks the same thing...?  That they are the most flawed individual they know.

 But if they think it -- I know it!!!

 I once told a friend, "Everyone makes mistakes -- nobody's perfect."  He told me that wasn't quite true because -- wait for it -- he was, perfect that is.  I'm not certain that my friend really thought he was perfect, but he sounded quite convinced at the time.

 I considered the statement arrogant, and if he truly believed his words a bit delusional, but now I pity those that know so little of themselves that they do not see their mistakes.  Our mistakes make us human.  Imperfection is the one thing all of us have in common. 

But that does not mean we should just cave in -- give up -- blunder along not caring what we do and who we hurt.  By no means -- looking at ourselves -- seeing our failings -- should first and foremost open us to accept mistakes made by others.  Then we should honestly consider how we can move in directions of improvement.  Listen more perhaps.  Consider others and their feeling.  Trying to be a bit more patient, would certainly be a good thing.  Be kind, first -- before kindness has been given -- or when unkindness has been laid at our feet.  These small things that may not come easily, but move us forward to a slightly less imperfect place.  No, I will never be perfect.  Likely I will never be quite as good as most others, but that doesn’t mean I should ever abandon the struggle as I move forward – hopefully -- on a road whose destination will remain -- in this life -- beyond my reach.  The road toward perfection!

(338 Words)                                        9-8-2013

 

Friday, April 1, 2016

Southbound and Back


Southbound and Back            

By John W. Vander Velden

Having returned from our excursion, I take some time to share our adventure.  Florida seems to call us.  Perhaps it’s because we take our trip in mid to late March, and we have winter “up to here” and seek warmer environs that the state comes to our minds.  In any case an episode of “Island Living”, on the travel channel, introduced us to Amelia Island and we were off.  For the unfamiliar Amelia Island is north of Jacksonville on the western most portion of the east coast.  Does that make sense?  Get a map and you will see what I mean.  Cross the St. Mary’s River and you find yourself in Georgia.


Fernandina, FL 
Jackie and I love the sea shore, and Florida has grand beaches, and of Florida’s grand wonderful beaches thirteen miles reside on Amelia Island.  No we did not walk every inch, but several miles of white sand passed beneath our feet the week there.  We find something in the wind and waves, the thundering breakers that vibrate our ribs and lift our spirits.  We laugh at the antics of the sanderlings, those tiny birds carried on racing legs toward the retreating water only to dash before the next foaming surf.  We gather shells and talk as we walked on the seashore.  But most of all we feel connected to something much larger, seeing, hearing, feeling, and smelling a power that drives wind and water.  God’s hand visible, and to us obvious.

In the craziness of our everyday the time spent away returns us to our middle.  Seems strange doesn’t it? That you need to travel a thousand miles to reach your center.  But it was not the distance that mattered, but rather the purposeful separation and through that separation the joining.  It reminds us that we both work too hard, have accepted too many obligations, and try to keep too many people happy.  And after three hundred and fifty some days of juggling all these things an escape is not only deserved, but necessary.

We were fortunate in the weather department.  Some sprinkles on our driving days but the skies were clear throughout our stay on Amelia.  One morning broke cold and windy…I mean cold and windy…I mean like Indiana cold and windy.  And of course we took a river cruise that morning.  We were not alone for I was told they carried a capacity crowd.  For all those that cancelled…wimps…left openings for those like us that chose that ride on a whim.  We sat inside and they supplied blankets…thin…I mean very thin…blankets.  But it made it all the more fun, and Captain Pajama Life Jack kept us in stitches as he described the island and former inhabitants.  A great time and I recommend it to anyone…cold or not.

Now Amelia Island has a lighthouse…of course or why would we have come.  OK it was not the only reason…maybe not the top reason…but you know us and lighthouses.  BUT…and it’s a big BUT…the lighthouse is operated by the coast guard and the grounds are off limits, except on days when they offer a tour, not the Wednesday we were in town.  Now I must mention that the site is in a residential district for Amelia Island Lighthouse is the furthest inland of any Atlantic coast lighthouse.  It is hidden by a thick grove of live oak trees.  We searched for it for more than an hour and drove passed it twice.  You can catch a glimpse of it from the highway or from Fort Clinch State Park, but both keep you a mile away.  At last I found an alley that led to the gate only to be foiled by trees that prevented even a fair view.  Hmmmmm.  Maybe next time we will be on the island on the right Wednesday, a body never knows.

Speaking of Fort Clinch…well I mentioned the park…we spent an afternoon wandering around the fort and another walking on the fishing pier.  The pier, we were told, at a half mile in length, is the longest in North America.  Why did we walk it, you may ask?  Because it was there…and so were we.  It seems reason enough when you’re on vacation.  And it should be reason enough anyway.  The water of Amelia Island seems to draw fisherman…and fisherwomen.  For every bridge, every pier, every breakwater seems covered with them.  We spoke to many.  Most are locals open and friendly.

We ate in courtyard cafés, like “The Happy Tomato” and “Ï€ pizza” and other places with great food…too much usually.  Jackie loved all the quaint shops in Fernandina and continually wondered, how she could get that neat stuff home, so most of it remained in Florida.  We played two rounds of “Adventure” golf.  That’s what they call put-put these days.  We tied on the first and I got slaughtered on the second.  But it was fun and that’s all that mattered.  I mentioned the beaches, but the best was in Amelia Island State Park on the southern tip of the island.  Miles and miles of undeveloped coast.  We nearly had the beach to ourselves.  It seemed to draw us on and on and took great effort to turn around to walk the miles back to our car.

It would have been easy to lose track of the days, but Friday morning came and packed we left the hotel that had been our home base for the week, and taking A1A south we slipped out of that little place that seemed so near paradise, and began our way home.

Our trip to Amelia Island with stops in St Augustine…a great place too…and side trips to St Mary’s, Georgia and Kingsley Plantation on St. George Island will be one we shall always remember.  We look forward to our return.  

(974 Words)   4-1-2016